Add RUBY_BUILD_TARBALL_OVERRIDE to override the ruby tarball URL

* Update the check for whether a package is a ruby.

* macos-arm64 runners recently became available for ruby/truffleruby-dev-builder.
* Those builds are more frequently updated than on graalvm-ce-dev-builds.

Pass ruby configuration flags on the command line

This was set to gmake in https://github.com/rbenv/ruby-build/pull/1381
as a workaround for https://bugs.ruby-lang.org/issues/16331



YJIT builds in Ruby 3.3 previews require the use of BSD make on these
platforms, and no supported version of MRI requires the use of gmake, so
revert this.

JRuby continues to require gmake for jruby-launcher.

Fixes #2262

Co-authored-by: Mislav Marohnić <git@mislav.net>

Merge pull request #2265 from rbenv/dependabot/github_actions/redhat-plumbers-in-action/differential-shellcheck-5

Bump redhat-plumbers-in-action/differential-shellcheck from 4 to 5

Bumps [redhat-plumbers-in-action/differential-shellcheck](https://github.com/redhat-plumbers-in-action/differential-shellcheck) from 4 to 5.
- [Release notes](https://github.com/redhat-plumbers-in-action/differential-shellcheck/releases)
- [Changelog](https://github.com/redhat-plumbers-in-action/differential-shellcheck/blob/main/docs/CHANGELOG.md)
- [Commits](https://github.com/redhat-plumbers-in-action/differential-shellcheck/compare/v4...v5

)

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Bump mislav/bump-homebrew-formula-action from 2 to 3

Bumps [mislav/bump-homebrew-formula-action](https://github.com/mislav/bump-homebrew-formula-action) from 2 to 3.
- [Release notes](https://github.com/mislav/bump-homebrew-formula-action/releases)
- [Commits](https://github.com/mislav/bump-homebrew-formula-action/compare/v2...v3

)

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Bump up OpenSSL 3.1.3

* In TruffleRuby 23.1+, the GraalVM Updater (`gu`) is no longer available in GraalVM,
  instead JVM Standalones and Maven artifacts are provided to replace `gu`.
* See https://github.com/oracle/graal/issues/6855

Bump up openssl-1.1.1w

Added 3.3.0-preview2

Co-authored-by: Mislav Marohnić <git@mislav.net>

Add JRuby 9.3.11.0

Bump actions/checkout from 3 to 4

Bumps [actions/checkout](https://github.com/actions/checkout) from 3 to 4.
- [Release notes](https://github.com/actions/checkout/releases)
- [Changelog](https://github.com/actions/checkout/blob/main/CHANGELOG.md)
- [Commits](https://github.com/actions/checkout/compare/v3...v4

)

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  dependency-type: direct:production
  update-type: version-update:semver-major
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Remove `require_llvm` implementation

Remove `require_gcc` implementation